{"id":18570,"date":"2011-10-26T05:00:34","date_gmt":"2011-10-26T11:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.churchvolunteercentral.com\/?post_type=cvdaily&#038;p=18570"},"modified":"2016-09-07T18:33:37","modified_gmt":"2016-09-08T00:33:37","slug":"5-false-assumptions-that-keep-people-from-serving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wwv.group.com\/childrens-ministry\/blog\/training\/5-false-assumptions-that-keep-people-from-serving\/","title":{"rendered":"5 false assumptions that keep people from serving"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>&#8220;Ministry conversations can hold clues to false narratives about God that, with a little spiritual direction, can be gently revealed and corrected, creating space for spiritual awakening to a God full of grace and wonder.&#8221; \u00a0Andee Marks<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I was rereading Andee Mark&#8217;s article,<em> <a href=\"http:\/\/equip2merge.wordpress.com\/2011\/10\/17\/the-un-interview\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Un-Interview* <\/a><\/em>this morning. The article goes beyond a typical &#8220;interview&#8221; process for potential volunteers and challenges us to have meaningful conversations with them. Her thoughts on dealing with &#8220;false narratives&#8221; really hits the nail on the head, I think! All of us carry false assumptions with us; ideas and expectations about ourselves and about others.<\/p>\n<p>As a leader, we need to recognize these wrong assumptions and start addressing them, in our own lives and in the lives of the people we serve with.\u00a0Using \u00a0Andee&#8217;s article as a springboard, I came up with <strong>five false assumptions people may have about serving:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1. The church doesn&#8217;t need help.<\/p>\n<p>2. They have nothing of value to offer.<\/p>\n<p>3. There are other people more qualified to serve.<\/p>\n<p>4. Serving will require time or skills they don&#8217;t possess.<\/p>\n<p>5. They will be asked to serve in an area they don&#8217;t enjoy.<\/p>\n<p>Talking about these openly and honestly will help others realize that God may have more in store for them than what they assumed!<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>What would you add to the list?? Share your thoughts on our blog&#8230;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>*You can read <a href=\"http:\/\/equip2merge.wordpress.com\/2011\/10\/17\/the-un-interview\/\" target=\"_blank\">Andee&#8217;s article in its entirety here.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Ministry conversations can hold clues to false narratives about God that, with a little spiritual direction, can be gently revealed and corrected, creating space for spiritual awakening to a God full of grace and wonder.&#8221;  Andee Marks<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":84,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[129,6,670],"tags":[178,179,180,110,112,210,184,185,216,223,107,224,232],"class_list":["post-18570","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-recruit","category-training","category-volunteers","tag-christian-volunteer","tag-christian-volunteer-program","tag-christian-volunteer-programs","tag-church-leadership-tag","tag-church-volunteer","tag-church-volunteer-recruiting","tag-church-volunteers","tag-churches","tag-how-to-recruit-volunteers","tag-recruit-volunteers","tag-recruiting","tag-recruiting-church-volunteers","tag-volunteer-recruiting"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v24.0 - 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