{"id":2198,"date":"2011-01-13T17:21:11","date_gmt":"2011-01-13T22:21:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.churchvolunteerdaily.com\/?p=2198"},"modified":"2016-09-07T18:30:40","modified_gmt":"2016-09-08T00:30:40","slug":"become-a-volunteer-magnet-and-get-your-church-volunteers-to-stick-around","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wwv.group.com\/childrens-ministry\/blog\/retain\/become-a-volunteer-magnet-and-get-your-church-volunteers-to-stick-around\/","title":{"rendered":"Become a Volunteer Magnet\u2014and get your church volunteers to stick around!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here are 6 Ways to Become a Volunteer Magnet\u2014and get your volunteers to stick around!<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Watch your language<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A healthy environment for volunteers is saturated with verbal honor\u2014regular, specific praise for what they\u2019re doing. In his book <em>The<\/em> <em>Top Ten Mistakes Leaders Make,<\/em> Hans Finzel says, \u201cOrganizational researchers have been telling us for years that affirmation motivates people much more than financial incentives, but we still don\u2019t get it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Listen more intensely<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Author Stephen Covey borrowed this from St. Francis of Assisi: \u201cSeek first to understand, then to be understood.\u201d Next to physical survival, says Covey, \u201cthe greatest need of a human being is psychological survival\u2014to be understood, to be affirmed, to be validated, to be appreciated.\u201d He adds that when you listen carefully to another person, you give that person \u201cpsychological air.\u201d Once you\u2019ve met that need, the door is open for you to influence and problem-solve. If you don\u2019t meet that need, the door will remain closed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Lead from the big picture<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Your job isn\u2019t to serve your volunteers\u2014it\u2019s to serve God! In the soon-to-be-classic book <em>On Being a Servant of God,<\/em> author Warren Wiersbe says, \u201cMinistry isn\u2019t easy, but you make it more difficult for yourself if you serve people instead of the Lord Jesus Christ. You can\u2019t please everybody, so don\u2019t even try. Just live and work in such a way that your Master will be able to say, \u2018You are my beloved servant in whom I am well pleased.\u2019 \u201c I think this is great advice! And when you practice it, you\u2019ll draw your volunteers away from niggling concerns and into a much bigger mission.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Love by your actions<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Communicate love to your volunteers by respecting their time. How often have we asked them to show up early only to have them sit around? Doug Fields has a great insight into this: \u201cCould you use 10 hands-on volunteers immediately? How about 20? If you answered yes, what would these leaders do in your ministry? Unless you can assign leaders specific responsibilities with meaning and purpose, they will lose interest and be ineffective. Good leaders don\u2019t want to waste their time standing around.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Another way to demonstrate your love is to stay committed to difficult volunteers. When you face problem people with respect and courage, you greatly improve the environment for all your volunteers.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Laugh a lot<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Years ago when Kathy, my wife, and I (and most of our volunteers) were childless, we went out with our ministry team for dessert on most Friday nights for a little post-event fellowship. We had only one rule: no shop talk. Kathy had to regularly remind me of the rule to keep me from turning fun time into an extension of training time. Over the years, I\u2019ve realized how right she was. In fact, once kids came along, we kept the tradition going by getting together with volunteers for date nights. The new tradition was to put names of restaurants into a hat, then pick one for appetizers, one for dinner, and one for dessert. Those nights were highlights for our team, mainly because we laughed hard.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Let go of some of your real responsibilities<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nothing frustrates volunteers more than shoddy delegation or excessive supervision. When you delegate, give specific guidelines and expectations. But don\u2019t equate \u201cspecific\u201d with claustrophobic oversight. You show confidence in their ability and character when you show them what to do, answer their questions, then step back and let them do it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here are 6 Ways to Become a Volunteer Magnet\u2014and get your volunteers to stick around! 1. 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